Summary
The transcript is a passionate sermon or motivational speech centered on the themes of faith, obedience to God, and living a purposeful life. The speaker recounts a personal testimony where a process expected to take 60 days was miraculously completed in 6 days, attributing this to their unwavering faith in God’s power. They emphasize that faith involves expecting God to act, even when situations seem impossible, and acting in alignment with that expectation. The speaker contrasts human doubt and fear with divine empowerment, urging listeners to surrender their personal ambitions and fears to become vessels for God’s purpose. They argue that true prosperity—defined as wholeness and lack of want—comes from God, not worldly success, and that living out faith glorifies God in the physical realm. The talk also touches on relationships, warning against misplaced faith in changing others romantically, and concludes with a call to step out of comfort zones, trust God, and pursue a life that reflects His blessings.

What Stood Out as Interesting
What I find particularly striking is the speaker’s reframing of faith as an active, almost audacious expectation rather than passive hope. The idea that faith isn’t just believing something might happen but adjusting your behavior as if it will happen—like preparing for a date you’re certain is coming—adds a practical, tangible dimension to an often abstract concept. The personal story of turning a 60-day ordeal into 6 days is a compelling hook, blending the miraculous with the relatable (researching on Reddit, official websites, etc.), making it feel grounded yet extraordinary.

Another standout is the emphasis on humility as a prerequisite for bold faith. The speaker ties the ability to act fearlessly to a mindset where personal ego and ambition “die,” and you see yourself solely as a vessel for God’s will. This paradox—humility fueling boldness—is thought-provoking and flips the usual narrative of confidence stemming from self-assurance.

Finally, the critique of misplaced faith in romantic contexts (e.g., praying for someone uninterested to change) is a refreshing take. It’s a sharp, practical warning that cuts through idealistic tendencies, redirecting focus to personal growth and purpose instead. This blend of spiritual depth, real-world application, and candidness makes the message both challenging and engaging.

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you're trying to do that thing and people who are involved in it

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they're gonna look at you like who do you think you are

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I mean what's wrong with you nobody has done that

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that's impossible

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okay you can't get it that fast

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that's not how things work that's not how we process this stuff

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that's not how we do it

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and you just go in there like no it's gonna happen exactly as I expected it's gonna

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happen exactly as God told me I don't care how you guys do it when I do it

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it's gonna be different when I do is gonna happen because God is with me the

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children of Israel a 14-day journey turned into 40 years and I lately have a

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testimony that a 60-day journey become 60 how that happened I can tell you this, when I decided to do that thing, I

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researched, I asked about people who have done that before, so on the official

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website they said they need 60 working days and everybody on Reddit and you

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know you research, ask around people who have done that, it takes and they were

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all complaining, was that this is gonna take more than 60 days. A lot of people are waiting for even 90 days. The

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whole thing is very slow and when I decided to do that I told God, okay if

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it's actually gonna be 60 days I'm gonna be finished. I have to get it done by the

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end of February. And so that gave God only less than a week. You know what happened? Yes, God did it. Six days. 60 days turned 60. Why do I have the

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audacity to believe that God has to do this in 6 days? Why? Because God is with me. So

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faith gives you that sense of entitlement and it's emboldening you to do something because you are so sure that

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you hurt God.

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So if God wants you to do this thing, He is testing you, your faith.

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He is testing you, are you going to wet your feet before I part the Jordan River?

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When you hurt God, tell you to do something and when you actually

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take action you realize wow this is difficult this is gonna take way too

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long like this is not likely to be finished as the time I have and at that

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moment a lot of people will step back they're gonna be thinking I must be hearing God wrong, right? That's what you're gonna think and then you end up not doing it.

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So this is what I want to tell you today. I am a living testimony, okay?

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When God tells you to do something, it's gonna be hard.

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And it's gonna take this

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much time it's gonna take three months six months one year it's gonna take

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basically what they're gonna say is it's gonna take forever it's impossible for

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you to do that technically realistically but that's the exact thing I want you to

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Why? Because if you can finish in a normal process, in a predictable way, in a natural way, you don't need him.

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If a human can finish it, you don't need God. Do you take that word seriously? Do you take that word literally?

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I'm telling you, I have been reading the Bible in a literal way, and it happened to

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me in a literal way. So I take the word of God very seriously. Every line, okay? Jesus

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said, if you're abiding me and my word abiding you, ask whatever you want and it shall be

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Do you take that seriously? Do you believe that it's actually gonna be done according to what he said?

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Do you believe that Jesus don't lie? Do you believe that when he said, ask whatever you want and it shall be done to you

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and he meant it literally whatever you want. Do you believe that? I believe that, what I'm going to do is that I ask the Lord,

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how can I meet the condition?

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The condition is if you abide in me and my word abides in you.

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So for the past two years, that's what I've been doing.

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Lord, help me meet the condition.

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Teach me how to abide in you and how to let your word abide in me. And after I met a condition, my prayer is

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powerful. And when your prayer is powerful, you know you level up in the spirit realm.

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And when you level up in the spirit realm, very soon you will be level up in the physical

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realm. Why? So there's a lot of questions. I already heard you guys complaining, okay.

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Why does it matter to level up in the physical realm? We just want spirit, spirit, spirit.

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Everything is spiritual. You are using spiritual reason as an excuse to be lazy. Why it matters

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to level up in the physical realm? Why it matters that your labor in the spiritual realm

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must be manifest in the physical realm? Because it glorifies God. Let your good work shine before

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man and glorify your father in heaven. Jesus said shine before man, so man need to see

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it. Man need to see your good work. Man need to know your victory. Then they will see your

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God. You are his representative on earth. You are his children. You know, sometimes

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sometimes when you see a kid, you wonder who is their parent?

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you know they are so disciplined, they are so polite, they are so intelligent, they are so amazing

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and sometimes you see some kid like screaming, just bad behavior, immediately you judge their parent

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Here, for you as the children of God, when people see you, they want to know who is your

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father. If they want to know who is your father, then you glorify him. They want to know who

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is your God, they want to know who gives you this self-entitlement. You know, if people

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find that, why are you, Alice, why are you so self-entitled? Why are you so confident?

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all the time. Then I will gladly tell them, my father in heaven, my lord, my god. So it

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actually matters, Christians. I'm just saying, it actually matters. Your life in this physical

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realm matters. When you win, people see your god. When you win, people know your god. And

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I am not saying you need to have this worldly success that everybody in the world are chasing, okay? That's not what

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I mean. So a lot of people will argue with me and they are so offended at this word prosperity.

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If you have a problem with prosperity, you have a problem with God. Because everyone

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he blesses, he prospers. And what does prosper mean? Being a billionaire? No, that's not

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not what it means and a lot of billionaires are not prospering.

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Prosperous means not lacking.

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It's the Lord is my shepherd I shall not want.

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So if you're a Christian and you don't want anything, you don't lack anything, even though

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you're not a multi-millionaire, you are prosperous.

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You already have prosperity.

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So what, why does this word offend you?

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you know it shouldn't

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that's a sign of your blessing

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and it's in Deuteronomy 28

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so read that before you argue

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so you see

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sometimes when God wants you to do something

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people will always tell you it's impossible

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so what are you going to do?

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don't tell them

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don't tell them what you are doing

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just tell them I need prayer. I'm serious. Even your pastor, even your spiritual mentor.

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Because human, most human cannot defeat the spirit of fear. They might defeat it for this

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season and next season is going to come back. I'm talking to myself here. You know, for

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a moment I defeat the spirit of fear and the next day morning I woke up in fear. This happens all the time.

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And when people are fearful, you know, they are controlled by the spirit of fear, they

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project their fear onto you because they think that is too daunting to do. So they think

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you can't do it either. And it's not like, even if they have your best interest at heart,

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even if they're your parent, they're your pastor, they love you dearly.

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Because of their fear, they imagine they can't do that.

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So in their mind, in their heart, they don't believe you can do it.

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Are they wrong?

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No, they're not wrong.

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You can't do it.

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If God is not with you, you can't do it.

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that you have this boldness, this resolution to do something against everybody's suggestion

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is because God is with you. It's because he supernaturally gives you more faith to accomplish

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this difficult task, this impossible task. It's because God gives you that faith is because you know he is with you that's why you have this boldness to do things

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that is impossible and it is impossible okay i'm not saying it looks impossible i'm not saying all

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this is mental no there's this just actually impossible but when god is in this business, when the finger of God is in your life, it will happen.

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And what you can do, you are just in the vessel. So why there are so many people,

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you know they struggle with this thing, faith. They struggle to step out in faith.

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I reflect on myself and I realize this one thing. When I struggle with faith, I become, I'm not seeing myself as a living sacrifice, okay?

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So we are a vessel for the Holy Spirit, we are a vessel for God.

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And when you fear to do something, that means you let fear control you, you don't realize

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you are a mere vessel for God.

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So if God tells you to do it, you have to do it. Your fear, your self-consciousness,

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your selfish ambition, doesn't matter. You need to put that away and do exactly as God

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told you to do. So it's actually a deeper reason than that. When people are functioning

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in the spirit of fear, often time those people, they are prideful. They don't have humility, they might have false humility, they might look humble

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but they're not humble. So what is humility? Humility is that you don't see yourself

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as important as God's purpose. Your purpose doesn't matter, you technically don't have a

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your purpose is to glorify God on earth

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your purpose here is to fulfill his purpose for you

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because he made you for a purpose

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and that is his purpose

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so when you become humble

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when you see yourself as your body as a living sacrifice for God

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then you will have that ridiculous faith to do whatever he tells you to do because you don't matter anymore

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you are just fulfilling what he tells you to do you know you don't freak out like oh what if what

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if i fail people people gonna mock me and i will end up this and that you don't think that way

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because you're a vessel you don't care how people see you because you're a vessel

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and a lot of people have this question about the renewed mind, right?

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you all want a renewed mind

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but why is your mind still conducting?

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why you can't put your mind on the things above?

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you know, and you're continuously putting your mind on the things on earth

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and because you put your mind on the things on earth, things just become

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confusing

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extremely difficult, because you do it the wrong way. Because everything happened

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from the spirit first, from the spiritual realm first, and your target is at a physical realm.

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You are focusing on the wrong thing. And let me tell you, the Bible said, how to renew your mind

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so that you may prove what the will of God is. First of all, if you don't have a renewed mind,

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you don't know the will of God. A lot of people are not living in the will of God.

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If you're not prosperous, if you lack this, you lack money, you lack health, you lack

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relationship, you lack happiness, you lack fulfillment, you lack everything in life,

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you're not living in the world of God because the will of God for you is wholeness.

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The will of God for you is prosperity.

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And why are you not living in the world of God?

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Because your mind has not been renewed.

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And why is your mind has not been renewed?

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Now listen, right before this famous verse,

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it answer your question.

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And the answer is,

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offer your body as a living sacrifice for God.

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That is the answer.

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When you no longer exist,

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you know, you die, you die

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you need to die don't take your old man

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to therapy kill him he needs to die

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he needs to die everybody who lives in the purpose of God

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every God's servant okay

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every God's servant that you wanted to become and for some of you, you might want to be like me and I appreciate that. And I tell you, the secret is that

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I died. You need to die. I don't have my own ambition. My deepest desire is to glorify God.

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Every time when something good happens in my life, every time I have victory. I screen out in a way that, oh my goodness, God, you did it. Like I immediately

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think of God. I immediately think of God, you are so faithful. It doesn't matter anything,

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even including relationship, like the last relationship in my life. I always think about God, I don't think about,

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oh I am so amazing, I am so smart, I am so victorious, I am so beautiful, I am so attractive,

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I am so this and that, I am so, you know, I don't think about that.

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Because everything, every good thing that happens in my life, I know it's gonna happen,

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I expect it to happen, because I know it, it's already there in the spirit realm because I put my mind on the things about I know it's there

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so when it happened on earth as it is in heaven, I

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Glorify God I I shout out of joy. I praise the Lord

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It doesn't surprise me, you know, that that's what it is

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There's nothing really surprised me when I saw it first in the spirit realm.

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Some people, some of my more carnal Christian friends used to tell me something crazy,

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Oh my God, you wouldn't believe that God did this and that and blah blah blah in their life.

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And I was like, they were trying to impress me and they expect to see that surprise face on me but I just like I know I pray about it, praise the Lord

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you know I hope that doesn't you know

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disappoint them but a lot of things that manifest in the physical life in my life and people I know

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when I pray for them first of all they don't know I pray for them a lot of people

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don't know I pray for them and when they tell me something happened in their life and they're

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expecting me to be surprised and I was like yeah I know I pray about it thank god I'm not surprised

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that's the thing is that when you actually know how how you know how this thing works

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how life works, how the spiritual realm, physical realm works, you're not surprised.

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You're only surprised when you first saw it in the vision, in your dream, and when

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you hear it by the Word of God. That's the moment you are surprised, but when it

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actually happens, when everybody on earth can see it, you're not surprised anymore.

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But it's very important that it must happen on earth because only when it happens on earth you can glorify God.

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You know, you can prove your faith. Like what is faith? Faith is that it hasn't happened

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but I know it's gonna happen and I act like it's gonna happen. I expect it to happen.

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You don't just want it to happen, you expect it to happen.

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So what does it mean to expect something to happen?

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Is that you adjust your behavior according to the expectation.

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So let me tell you this, one example, if you expect to go on a date, let's say somebody

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you're gonna you know maybe shave at least on Friday night you know put on

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some deodorant buy some new clothes if your haircut look terrible you might

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even go to a hairdresser on Friday right to prepare for that date that you look

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forward to they expect to happen and for woman there's even much more preparation

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work to before date right so that is expectation is that you actually prepare for it. Faith is that there's

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like a gap. There's a time gap between spirit and physical. Okay, so that time gap from it happened

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in the spiritual realm to manifest in the physical realm, that time gap will test your faith. That is how much of your faith is. Okay, so let's say if you see something

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is going to happen 10 years ago, 10 years ago, and you still believing it, and when

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it manifests 10 years later, so your faith is that much, is 10 years faith. That's Joseph, that's David, that's those Bible characters we admire

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and Abraham, believe in God for

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the promised son for whole life, you know

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the father of faith and God don't even test us that hard

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you know a lot of time he will show you something, it's gonna happen

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next month and even one month

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of faith you don't have it

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even one month you can't

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you can't act according to what you saw what he showed you

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in the spirit realm, what he told you, what you heard

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even one month you don't even have that much of faith

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and I'm speaking to myself okay

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every time I say you don't have that much faith I'm preaching to myself as well because I need what I'm preaching. And I do

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want to mention one thing at last about faith. Everything I'm talking about, it's about personal

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thing. It's not about relational thing. When it comes to relational thing, there is one exception

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relationship okay and if two people are married and they're having troubles in

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their marriage those two people need to have faith that God will work this out

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that God will bring their spouse home bring the prodigal spouse home God will

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change them God will convert them if they are already married but hear me out, don't have this weird faith in somebody you never married, you didn't

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even marry them, you didn't even marry them but you have this weird faith that God is

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going to change them and make them perfect and then you can marry them, don't have weird

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faith like this or even worse, some of you are even worse, you have faith in someone who doesn't like you and you just have the faith that

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quote-unquote faith that they're my husband, they're my wife, I'm gonna keep

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praying that God will change their mind that they will fall in love with me and

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they will marry me. That's not how you use this word faith. Don't waste this work, don't waste your faith.

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You have the faith in God to change another person's mind, another person's heart, that

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is manipulation.

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If you truly have faith, you have faith in yourself, in your own purpose, you will have

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faith in God changing you, not in changing another person.

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Okay, unless that person is your spouse, that's a different story

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that person is your children, is your parents, your siblings

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but that person, if it's just somebody you have romantic interest in

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you wanna marry them, you're attracted to them, but they're not godly

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that is a wrong faith

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that is a wrong faith, with all that faith, you might put that faith

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into your purpose, into your business. Okay? Don't waste your faith in that.

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And I noticed this one thing. Guys, it's not that I don't know what kind of topic

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will get more views, will get more response, because if you go to my

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homepage, you will realize all my semi-viral videos are about relationship, are about something negative, at least the thumbnail

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or the title of the video is a negative. And I noticed that's what people love hearing.

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People want to hear negative views about men, about women, about marriage, about relationship.

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That's how newspaper, that's how media has been working for decades.

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People have an ear for negative things.

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People have an ear for sexual perversion, for juicy stuff, scandal, celebrities, scandal,

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gossip.

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That's what people love.

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So when you produce videos like that, you have more views.

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But I have to say, most of my audience lies in 25 to 35. That is an age that a lot of us, I would say, almost like

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at the peak of our life. So you are, you find your purpose, you're probably going to find

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a spouse, you haven't figured your purpose out. You

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haven't figured your relationship with God out. It's good to talk about relationship

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now and then, but I just wanted to say, if you're in the wrong place, you're not going

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to have the right relationship. If you're in the wrong place, you're not gonna have the

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right relationship. If you're in the wrong season, you're not gonna meet the right person.

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And some of you, okay, you were born in that town, go to school in that town, raised in

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that town, work in that town, you're still in that town. And you're wondering why there is no woman of God I can marry?

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Why there is no woman of God that I am attracted to?

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Why there is no attractive woman who happens to be woman of God?

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You want all those two together.

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But why don't you look at where you are right now?

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Are you sure God wants you to stay there? You know you're not supposed to be

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there. You couldn't bear staying there. You're dying inside. You're anxious. You're depressed.

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You're overweight. Okay, this is not fat shaming. I'm just saying overweight is often

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often because you're anxious about your own life, you're escaping the fact that you don't

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like your life, that you're purposeless, you're endless. That's why you're anxious. And when

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you're anxious, you overeat. When you're anxious, you're not productive, you're forever trapped. And sometimes how to end

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that cycle is just to move, is just to get out of where you are. I can tell you, you

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know what you guys love to hear about 10 red flags of a woman, 10 red flags of a woman in the church, okay? It doesn't help. You're not gonna met a good woman

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being where you are right now because why would good woman be with you? Sorry

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this is harsh but it's good for you, okay? A lot of you has talent, a lot of you

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have the heart for the Lord, a lot of you deserve so much better.

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But you let fear tie you down.

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You let fear tie you down.

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Life can be so much better if only you step out of that comfort zone.

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It doesn't matter.

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No matter how many relationship advice you listen, you seek here on YouTube from worldly or godly people, you're

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in the wrong place. Nothing's gonna work. You're in the wrong season. Nothing's gonna

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work. You need to get out of there first, before you can even afford to think about

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the idea of marriage, before you can even afford to bring another person into your life. Okay? It's not easy. Like we're in

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an age that is so important that we fear that we're gonna messed up and

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we end up being paralyzed because we fear too much that we're gonna messed up

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and we end up exactly messing it up. So my honest advice right now is to take courage and be strong.

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Trust in the Lord.

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You know, focus your time and devotion on your self-improvement, on God.

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When I say self-improvement, I'm not saying in a worldly sense, because there is no real

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reward in the worldly self-improvement. Everything is temporary. The blessing of the

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Lord makes one rich and he adds no sorrow to it. Every worldly success, worldly riches,

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they all accompany with sorrow. A salesperson makes a lot of money, but they don't like their job, they hate it.

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They don't really love that job.

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It's not something they actually glorify God with, but they do make a lot of money.

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And there's a lot of rich people make a lot of money, but there's a lot of

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sorrow that comes with the source of their money, whether that's illegal or

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something they hate doing, but it's lucrative, right? It is the blessing of the Lord that makes one rich and he adds no

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sorrow to it. Everything you want, you can find it in Christ. You can find it in Christ.

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Okay? And it is because of Christ, give up his wealth and become poor that we might through him behold when he was broken you are

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rescued by the blood of Jesus the dominion and prosperity God promised

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man in Genesis is back to you because sin has been taken out of you. The only reason you lost your dominion is because of sin.

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And now Jesus take away your sin. You have your dominion back. And you do have entitlement

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as his children. And don't forget to like, share and subscribe to my channel

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leave a comment and let me know your idea or perception about faith and your faith story

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leave a comment and let me know your idea or perception about faith and your faith story

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well, until next time, God bless you